Parentingwith Ela
From yelling and chaos — to calm, connection, and cooperation.
I help moms stop surviving their days and start changing them.
If you're stuck in tantrums, power struggles, and sibling chaos — or raising a child whose intensity leaves you exhausted and questioning yourself — you're in the right place.
I'm Ela. Conscious parenting coach, educator, and mom of three. I specialise in intense, deeply feeling children and the moms who love them fiercely and struggle with them daily.
The chaos can end. The connection can grow. And it starts with you. 💛
Work With Me
All sessions are 60 min, 1:1, and tailored to your family's needs.
From Chaos to Calm
4 session intensive
- Session 1 — Identify what's driving the behaviour and why your responses aren't working.
- Session 2 — A personalised strategy and scripts built around your specific child.
- Session 3 — You start responding instead of reacting. The shift begins.
- Session 4 — You bring back what came up in real life. We iron it out together.
Focused on one child, one behaviour. Specific by design — because specific is what works.
Sessions to be completed within 6 weeks
Get StartedThe Full Transformation
6 Session Deep Dive
- Everything in From Chaos to Calm (Sessions 1–4)
- Session 5 — Your child is communicating more (in words and better behavior) — and melting down less.
- Session 6 — You see the changes clearly — so will others. Your child's behaviour shifted because yours did first. The fighting is less. The connection is obvious. And siblings who used to battle are actually choosing each other.
By the end — less fighting, more connection, and a child who listens because they feel understood — not because they're afraid or threatened.
Sessions to be completed within 12 weeks
Get StartedWhatsApp Add-on
Real Time Support
- Because parenting doesn't wait for the next session.
- This is for when the moment happens at 7am and you're alone in it without knowing what to do.
Available only with existing coaching packages · 1 month access
Spots are limited to ensure each family gets full support.
What parents are saying
Our sessions were always so enriching in the moment and they made absolute sense — but where I struggled was putting it into practice. Now what? I know all this, but what do I actually do? The WhatsApp add-on changed everything for me. It's the bridge between the session and real life. It's been so, so helpful.
He threw something across the bathroom and I just picked it up and put it away. I didn't say anything. I didn't lose it. And later, just before bed, I told him calmly that I didn't appreciate it and that it could have hurt me. The shock on his face — and then he said I'm sorry, and you could tell he really meant it. I think Ela gave me the permission that it's okay to let things pass. And then come back to it.
If you had told me before we started that I would see results within 2 to 3 weeks of consistent coaching, I would have questioned it. I really would have. But I can't call it a coincidence anymore. I've seen so many examples now. It's so, so rewarding.
She used to wake up and go straight for her sister. Now she's asking her for a hug first thing in the morning. My husband noticed it too — and he sees them in moments I don't. I feel like she feels safer now. It's easier for her to say sorry, to admit when she's wrong. Before, if you pointed out her mistake she would explode even louder. Now I can actually feel her taking pride in herself.
I always knew timeouts don't work but I had nothing else. I felt like I had to react to bad behaviour immediately or I was letting it go. Now I know I don't have to. I can let the moment pass and come back to it later, calmly. That realisation alone has been really, really big for me.
It's not just my son who changed. His brother's reaction to him is kinder now too. My friend noticed it at a playdate — she could see it from the outside before I could even fully see it myself. And my husband keeps mentioning moments he's witnessing at home. It can't be a coincidence. Something has genuinely shifted in our home.